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Contagious Smiling

Smiling is contagiousLast week I got to experience the film Compelled By Love starring Roland and Heidi Baker’s story.  I was proud to say that my son, Lyle was featured in the film.  The emotions I felt, the awe of being totally sold out to Jesus is truly phenomenal.  At the beginning of the film is an artist who starts painting a picture and you will see this throughout the film the stages of the piece, then at the end you see the final work.  The final picture is of Jesus with a contagious smile!  It makes you feel as though Jesus is happy, that He loves you and He wants you to smile.  Not only for His sake does He want you to smile but for your sake and the sake of others.  It’s contagious! Annalise Roth Phillips my granddaughter loves to smile!  Her smiling makes me smile.

Annalise our granddaughter is only 4 months old.  There is such a love connection when she totally trusts you to take care of her.  She looks at you with those blue eyes and as you talk to her and smile, she crinkles up her nose and smiles so big with her gums showing.  She smiles with her eyes.  It makes anyone talking to her want to get her to smile.  It is a smile that is rewarding even if it only last for just a few seconds.  I am looking forward to hearing her laugh and giggle throughout the house.  A smile, the emotion of trust and total happiness.

As a leader/pastor I love smiling.  I love smiling at people as I pass by, taking time to look into their eyes as if it is Jesus smiling back at me.  What a difference we can make if we just stop for the one regardless of how we feel at the time and smile.  Sometimes its hard for me especially because I am so caught up in the task or in my own thoughts of what I must get done I forget to look at the person in my busy schedule, however it is never my intention to ignore and I am learning to slow down and take time to the most valuable source on the planet… people!

This experience has made me realize how important smiling is.  It is important for at least five reasons according to Michael Hyatt.

  1. It helps others relax. When you scowl or look too intense, it creates a primal reaction in others. Their defenses go up. They become protective and guarded.

    This is the exact opposite of what you want to happen if you are trying to influence them. A smile communicates that you are safe and can be trusted.

  2. It draws people to you. Have you ever noticed how you are attracted to people who smile and laugh a lot? The positive energy is contagious. You instinctively smile in response.

    The simple fact is that people naturally want to be around people who are happy. If you want others to follow you, you can start by smiling more.

  3. It enables you to connect. Smiling is one of the best, quickest ways to connect with anyone from any culture. Even if you don’t speak the same language, a smile is universally appreciated.

    It opens the door, welcomes people into your world, and communicates acceptance. Even if people are frustrated or angry, a smile can often turn them around. In that moment you forge a connection.

  4. It creates positive culture. If you want to change the culture of an organization, change the behavior of its leaders. People naturally play “follow the leader.” When leaders smile, everyone smiles.

    Smiles communicate that your organization is a happy place to work. And who doesn’t want to work where people are smiling and happy?

  5. Why is smiling important for you to do?  Find out here! It elevates your mood. This is one of the surprising benefits of smiling. I had no idea. It literally affects you at a biological level, releasing endorphins and serotonin.

    Smiling has numerous physical and psychological benefits, including relieving stress, lowering your blood pressure, and boosting your immune system. And it’s much cheaper and healthier than drugs.

Seriously, set a goal to smile more this year. Recruit an accountability partner. Set reminders. Whatever it takes. As a leader, it will help ensure you have a positive impact on the people you are leading.  Relieve stress from your daily life right now… smile!

John 10:10…. Jesus said, “My purpose is to give life in all its fullness”.

Jesus is smiling always…. so why can’t we?…be contagious!

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How to Read Your Dog Just by Watching Her Tail

Roxie wagging her tail....Roxie is so cute and she just turned 10 years old Christmas Eve.  She drives me crazy sometime when she barks for no reason.  I thought this article was worth sharing and now I am going to start paying attention to her tail.  lol….

By Dr. Becker

New research suggests dogs send messages to each other through tail wags.

According to a study published in a recent issue of Current Biology,1 the direction of a wag is quite significant. What looks like just another friendly wag to you or me is actually communicating important information to other dogs.

As it turns out, when dogs are feeling stressed they tend to wag their tails to the left. The reason for this, according to the study’s lead author, Giorgio Vallortigara of the University of Trento in Italy, is that tail wagging is a reflection of what’s going on in a dog’s brain. Activation of the left-brain causes the tail to wag to the right, and activation of the right-brain produces a wag to the left.

 

Tail Wags to the Right Signal Openness, Wags to the Left Signal Wariness

In an earlier study, Vallortigara and his team demonstrated that dogs wag to the right side when they encounter something pleasant (like their owners). When they see something threatening, for example, a strange dog exhibiting dominant behaviors, they wag more to the left side. Those study results raised the question of whether dogs notice another dog’s tail wagging and use the information to decide whether the dog with the wagging tail is friend or foe.

For the most recent study, Vallortigara and his team used videos of a dog or dog silhouette wagging its tail mostly to one side or the other, or not wagging at all. The only thing moving in the wagging videos was the tail.

The video was shown to 43 dogs, including mixed breeds, Rottweilers, Beagles, Boxers, Border Collies, and German Shepherds, who were equipped with heart rate monitors. When the video dog wagged primarily to its left, indicating a negative response, the dogs in the study tended to have faster heartbeats than when the video dog wagged to the right or not at all. The dogs’ response also suggested a higher degree of stress.

Left-brain activity in dogs resulting in tail wagging to the right means they are having a positive response that invites another dog to approach. Right-brain activation suggests a negative withdrawal response.

 

Study Concludes Dogs Read the Tail Wags of Other Dogs

The study concluded that dogs who see another dog wagging to the left experience anxiety and elevated heart rates, whereas dogs who see another dog wagging to the right remain relaxed.

The researchers don’t believe the dogs are intentionally sending signals with their tails, but rather the tail wagging is a consequence of the inner workings of the canine brain. Tail-wagging behavior results from the way in which different emotional signals activate different parts of a dog’s brain.

“These results suggest that dogs have perceptual and attentional asymmetries,” says Vallortigara. “So for example, if you are going to visit a dog, if you are vet, there will be probably a side which is better with respect to the probability to evoke a more friendship response or to evoke a more aggressive response.”

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My Name Is Melissa

my name is melissaHave you ever looked up your name before? I highly suggest before you name your baby please look it up.  I know not too many people take that time to find out more but I do think it is important because it seems that my family has all lived out their name.

My name Melissa means “honeybee”.  Quite fitting I might add.  I am busy as a bee going from one thing to the next, flying around being the social bug that I am.  I love sweets and honey too I might add.  In Ireland it is sometimes used as a feminine form of the Gaelic male name Maoilíosa, which means “servant of Jesus.” My name was very popular during the decades from the 1960s through the 1990s, today Melissa is somewhat of a rare baby name; in 2010, fewer than 2,500 girls were given the name.  So that leaves me very unique! As an English given name, Melissa has been used since the 18th century, wow so I have a name who is old and unique.   In Persian, it means “red rose.”  and from the Urban dictionary :

Melissa meaning:
A very beautiful person inside and out.
Will always make you laugh and give you a hug before you even know you need one!
Can be some what blunt. But at least you know she is truthful. Very sweet and easy to talk to. Loves the color pink and loves her family more than anything else!
High morals. She sets her own ground.
Melissa has everything in pink! (Which I find it kind of ironic I named my blog for my Plexus Business “thinkpinkgirl”.  YOU CAN CHECK it out here.  www.thinkpinkgirl.wordpress.com

People with this name have a deep inner desire to use their abilities in leadership, and to have personal independence. They would rather focus on large, important issues, and delegate the details.  People with this name tend to be idealistic, highly imaginative, intuitive, and spiritual. They seek after spiritual truth and often find it. They tend to be visionary and inspire others.

My middle name is Ann.  My grandmother didn’t like the name Melissa so she called me Ann.  In fact most of my mothers side of the family called me Ann.  Here is what Ann means: Ann \a-nn\ as a girl’s name is pronounced anThe origin of the name Ann is Hebrew the meaning of Ann is “He (God) has favored me” , Gracious, Merciful,

Now for  the rest of my family.  I pulled from different resources so don’t think I made all this up! lol

Jeffery Martin : Gift of Peace : People with this name have a deep inner desire to use their abilities in leadership, and to have personal independence. They would rather focus on large, important issues, and delegate the details. This name has very independent nature, yet you are friendly, approachable, and generous.  You can be a spontaneous, expressive, and talkative person.  Generally you are good-natured, though at times you can be rather blunt and sarcastic.  You like to do things on the spur of the moment without planning or prior arrangements.  Your spirits are buoyed up greatly by encouragement and appreciation.  (Before he was adopted by the Phillips family, now if we look at Jeff’s name given at birth was Howard :  Middle English origin, meaning “sheep herder”) Now looking at his profession of being a pastor I believe his name has played out well.

Lyle Benjamin:  The name Lyle is an English baby name. In English the meaning of the name Lyle is:The island or from the island. From Old French ‘L’isle’. The name Lyle in American the meaning of the name Lyle is: The island or from the island. People with this name have a deep inner desire for travel and adventure, and want to set their own pace in life without being governed by tradition.  People with this name tend to be passionate, compassionate, intuitive, romantic, and to have magnetic personalities. They are usually humanitarian, broad-minded and generous, and tend to follow professions where they can serve humanity. Because they are so affectionate and giving, they may be imposed on. They are romantic and easily fall in love, but may be easily hurt and are sometimes quick-tempered.  Benjamin: Son of right hand, People with this name have a deep inner desire for a stable, loving family or community, and a need to work with others and to be appreciated. People with this name are excited by change, adventure, and excitement. They are dynamic, visionary and versatile, able to make constructive use of freedom. They fight being restricted by rules and conventions. They tend to be optimistic, energetic, intelligent, and to make friends easily. They may be changeable, restless, untidy, and rebellious.

Bryson Roth: It is Welsh origin meaning:   son of a nobleman, freckled, red:   People with this name have a deep inner desire for a stable, loving family or community, and a need to work with others and to be appreciated.  People with this name tend to be creative and excellent at expressing themselves. They are drawn to the arts, and often enjoy life immensely. They are often the center of attention, and enjoy careers that put them in the limelight. They tend to become involved in many different activities, and are sometimes reckless with both their energies and with money. You have a natural interest in the welfare of your fellow-man, and a desire to help and serve others in a humanitarian way. You are responsible and generous, although somewhat scattering and disorganized at times. Any jobs requiring systematic and conscientious effort, or involving any form of drudgery, dismay you. In your work, you would seek a position offering self-expression through contact with people, such as sales or teaching, or a position giving scope to your creative, artistic talents.You are good-natured and likeable, and people tend to confide in you and seek your advice in personal problems.Others sense your sincere interest and desire to help, and you can always be counted on to see the bright side of any problem.You enjoy making others happy and you never let your own problems “get you down” for any length of time, even though you do tend to worry too much at times.In close personal relationships you are usually thoughtful and considerate. Health weakness would appear as skin conditions or ailments relative to the liver and tendency to overeat quick-energy foods aggravates any health problems. Roth: nickname for a person with red hair, People with this name are excellent at analyzing, understanding, and learning.   Because they live so much in the mind, they tend to be quiet and introspective, and are usually introverts. When presented with issues, they will see the larger picture. Their solitary thoughtfulness and analysis of people and world events may make them seem aloof, and sometimes even melancholy. (It is quite ironic that Bryson has redish hair and in his beard and from time to time has stomach issues when he eats certain foods.)

Jordan Heath:As a name, it comes from the Aramaic Yarden, meaning “one who descends” In Hebrew the meaning of the name Jordan is: To flow down. Flowing down. People with this name have a deep inner need for quiet, and a desire to understand and analyze the world they live in, and to learn the deeper truths. People with this name are competent, practical, and often obtain great power and wealth. They tend to be successful in business and commercial affairs, and are able to achieve great material dreams. Because they often focus so strongly on business and achievement, they may neglect their private lives and relationships. Heath: Untended land where flowering shrubs grow.  Your name of Heath gives you a clever mind, good business judgment, a sense of responsibility, and an appreciation of the finer things of life.Home and family mean a great deal to you and it is natural that you should desire the security of a peaceful, settled home environment where you can enjoy the companionship of family and friends.Whatever you set out to accomplish you do your very best to complete in accordance with what you consider to be right.In the home you assume your responsibilities capably, having the self-confidence to form your own opinions and make your own decisions.Others can rely on you; once you have given your word you will do your utmost to fulfill a responsibility.

Spencer Edward:  The male name Spencer means ‘steward’ or ‘dispenser of supplies’.  The first name of Spencer creates a shrewd, aggressive, business nature, intent on personal gain.The desires for independence and financial success have been strong motivating forces from early in your life.You are capable of logical and analytical thinking along practical business lines, and could excel in financial fields, law, or politics.You have definite executive and leadership abilities, however others may find you to be rather forceful and uncompromising.More congenial business and personal relationships would result from being more tactful and more aware of the needs of others.Your name of Edward gives you self-assurance, independence, and confidence. You have depth of mind and the ability to concentrate and to follow a line of thought to a logical conclusion. Your love of challenging the concepts of others invariably leads you to create your own ideas and to pioneer new lines of thought.Your strong characteristic of individuality qualifies you as a leader.You must be independent and you do not brook interference in any way.Although you do not tolerate interference in your own affairs, this characteristic does not prevent you from interfering in the affairs of others.You are usually either telling or showing someone how to do something properly.Although you are good-natured and never intend offence, still your blunt, direct, and candid manner of expression strains friendships; your honesty and sincerity earn respect from others.You have to be your own boss as it is most difficult for you to submit to direction from others. (This would explain his leadership/management skills!)

Annalise Roth:  Graced with God’s bounty, gracious and pledged to God.  Is happiest when expressing in some creative, artistic way, and not conforming to strict routine, you are expressive, witty, and quite charming.  Drawn to the arts.  They are deep, philosophical, and refined, with extremely sensitive nature. If not careful, people take advantage of  the generous nature. They find the beauties of nature, fine music, art, and literature–all the deeper things of life–inspiring but crave affection and understanding, analyzing people.  (We will see how this plays out, since she is only 8 weeks old 🙂 )

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Detox for the Body and Soul

detox with lemon juice I just started something new for the last two-weeks with this lemon drink.  I like it.  Can I tell any difference? Ummm unsure but I know it’s good for me.  Here is what I am doing:

Morning Drink: Lemon Cayenne Water

For the last two weeks I’ve been starting out every morning with a glass filled with water, lemon juice and cayenne pepper. It’s kind of like the master cleanse lemonade, but with no sweetener. When I drink it, I feel like I am cleansing myself with a dose of detoxifying goodness.

Lemon cayenne water is a great way to cleanse your body regularly even when you’re not “on a cleanse.”

Drinking spicy water may sound gross to you, but with the lemon, you’ll actually start loving it.  Now, I just add a pinch, and I love it.

Here’s why:

Lemon juice and cayenne pepper both have anti-fungal, immune boosting, and detoxification properties.

Lemon juice is great for digestion, destroying bacteria and cleansing the system –it supports the liver and kidneys to get rid of toxins.

Cayenne pepper increases metabolism, stimulates the circulatory system, aids digestionhelps regulate blood sugar and more.

Put them together and you have a very powerful cleansing drink!

My usual:

  • About 12 oz of water
  • Juice from 1/2 lemon
  • Pinch of cayenne (enough to feel the heat but not so spicy that it’s hard to get down)

So give it a try! It may become part of your new morning routine.

Now what about my soul?

detox for the soulThis got me thinking about my morning routine.  I need to study more to detox my soul.  I can read a scripture or ponder on a topic but then my morning can quickly go into checking Facebook  messages, twitters, email and before you know it I am boggled down with “stuff” totally weeding out my time with God.  I need to change.  It seems as though I can’t seem to find balance.  I need to exercise again since they tell me my cholesterol is a tad high.  Decisions, choices, work, children, and life.

Last week I had a group of ladies here at the house and we discussed the biggest issues women face.  One was balance.  The feeling words, were overwhelmed or stressed.

It’s time for a detox for everyone and I am not just talking about for the body but for the soul.  The Bible describes it as Renewing the Mind.  We must get ourselves to a place where we give God the time to meditate on His Love, His Word and His goodness.  Just like my new morning water routine, we need an immune upper from His Word.  We need a spiritual metabolism booster to keep us going.  We need an enemy destroying cleanse of the junk that penetrates our mind from the world’s words.  Now if you put them all together you have a powerful cleansing, detoxing, spiritual booster for the day!

This is my new morning routine and its much more than just a drink. 🙂

What is your morning detox?

 

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Life is Like Corn

This is really a wonderful example in how we all need each other to product fruit!  Just watch and please add a comment below to tell me what you think!  Be blessed and encouraged with my 2 min devotional. http://youtu.be/yJpWmfVCz8Y

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My Husband’s Blog Is Finally Up

My husband is learning to blogThanks to our new intern Rachel, she has brought us much help in the areas of us oldies know nothing of…. new technology. The way I learn is try to figure things out by pushing buttons, trial and error and didn’t even think about youtube videos which by the way takes me hours!  My husband works smarter.  He gets someone to do it for him.  After several years of telling him to write, he finally has taken the time to get his blog site up and running.  At the church, my office is next to him and when he wants me, he yells “Melissa come here for a minute and show me how to do this, I forgot”.  I take a deep breath and grin at the thought for the 100th of time I am going to show him how to add media to his site.  Now this is my husband who is in the latter stages of getting his Masters in Theology, and his grades are always A+ writing those 100 page thesis.  Smart man…. he married me, so does that make me smart? lol

I’m not complaining, he does bring me coffee, makes up the bed every morning, vacuums and his new chore is washing clothes. I didn’t ask him, he just does it. He also mows the grass, takes care of the yard and the pool.  It seems like our roles have reversed somewhat in the last few years since I now work more than I ever had.  My photography business is still growing strong and my Health business is reaching new levels, so most of my days are here at home on this computer putting out ads, taking pictures or at the church.  It really makes me feel coequal and we are really a team.  He only thing he doesn’t really do is cook but he does know  how to order pizza. 🙂

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Marriage after 30 years seems to get better and better.  You learn each other in what works and doesn’t.  It is not very often we fight, maybe once a year.  Do we get agitated, yes, do we get on each other’s nerves sometimes, yes, do we need a break from routine, yes.  All in all the Phillips home is happy and with Jesus Christ being in the middle of it is how we got here.  Loving people. Living for God. Leading others.

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Man Beaten By Authorities

man beaten to deathThis news is more disturbing than ever to hear about an innocent man beaten almost to the point of death.  This innocent man who quietly was at the park with some friends,  was captured as if he was a dangerous criminal.  One of the man’s friends led authorities straight to the man and the group that he was with.  The group of people managed to escape but the man was arrested.  The man was taken straight to authorities for questioning his bizarre behavior along with his outlandish religious views. During this time the authorities spit on him, blindfolded him and hammered his face with their fists.  What’s more disturbing not only did the authorities allow this to happen, they also let the bailiffs get in a few swings upon the innocent man too.  He was placed in holding for more questioning without a lawyer.

Upon the next day, the bruised and bleeding man was automatically sent to the governor.  After questioning him, the governor wanted to release the man in reference of no crime committed, however in fear of the people in high authority and the crowd of people hearing of the news, he decided he wouldn’t have part in the entire mess.  He called for a jury to decide the verdict. After the jury claimed the man to be guilty without even a trial, the man was placed back in the hands of the authorities who brought him to the governor in the first place.  In the process the man was taken out back and the chief captain’s men again beat the man only with this time a whip containing a razor at the end of the leather.  This tore into the man’s back and left him barely breathing.  He was taken back into the barracks behind closed doors and given a set of clothes only to again hit him over the head and spit on him. They also put on his head a circle containing sharp thorns.

He was then made to walk in front of people bleeding profusely.  Protesters against the governor pressed into the man to get in their full swings and pulling out the man’s beard and swearing at him.  The man was forced to carry a wooden beam, tortured in the process.  He was then nailed to the wooden beams and crucified in front of the town where he died in this hanging.

The innocent man’s name was Jesus.

What makes this story so unique is that Jesus didn’t stay in the grave.  He rose again on the third day and walked among the people. We know this day and celebrate it as Easter.

The grave is empty, the only person to rise from dead. Jesus did not only die as an innocent man, but he chose to receive this torture and take on the sin of all man, and die for man.  The result of this would be that all people including you and I can have everlasting life in eternity with him for our choosing to do so.  The grace is that we no longer live by the law of the Old Testament but enter into an agreement with Jesus that He died for our sins and came back to life.  In doing this, we confess our wrong doings, we also turn from our sinful nature and accept his ways.   As gruesome of a death this was, it was not an ending to life but the beginning.    Although he returned to heaven, the Spirit of God is here upon earth to give us power, to be witnesses for Him, to comfort us and to teach and unite us.  He is with us always.  Love. Live. Lead.

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Booster or Stalker

It was a beautiful day and I should have been outside taking a walk at least for a few minutes but instead I have worked on the computer all day, photos and events.  I came across something very interesting on fb that I guess I just didn’t realize was even there.  On the home page in the left hand column has the message tab but under it says, “other”messages.   I guess I never paid attention to it before.  I had over 30 messages I guess were “junk” or “spam” from not friends who sent messages.  Why didn’t I ever know about this… ummm dunno… I had to laugh out loud talking to a friend as I read over them.  Where in the heck does these people come from!?  I thought for a moment depressed women at home on a computer all day could easily fall for entrapments or an all out conversation with a stranger as the message were a self esteem booster.  Not this gal.  I thought they were funny.  Before I deleted them all, I wanted to share these “pick up lines” men use to either get women talking.  Can these be serious?

Here is what some of them said:

  1. Reading your profile has sparked my interest. and it makes my heart stop beating, that’s because Your smile has a beauty that i find in no other profile .
  2. Hi Pretty,  How are you doing? i visited your profile, It was quite great… wow sweetie i must tell you look sweet and adorable! i will like to know you more better because your picture and profile caught my heart that i could not let it go without telling you how deep i appreciate you here.am looking for a honest woman here for a long term relationship.Am a man of dignity, sincere,honest,dedicated, responsible, patience,passionate, affectionate, loving, caring and adventurous.I dont care about distance, provided you are for real, and know why you are here and ready for a long term relationship, honest, sincere, loving and caring, am ready to settle down and be with you sooner than you can ever imagine.perhaps we could set up conversation to know each other more better,I look forward to hearing from you, Till then. Have a loving day best love always
  3. I am sorry for sending you such a letter this time, but i want you to know that i was touched by your charming and lovely look, because i never thought there are still women with such gentle look and smile.
  4. Good Day My Dear. i have a son from my late wife. but i am here in search of a friend i have lost contact with for a long time that was when i came across your profile. But, i would never mine if i can know more about you no matter the distance that seperate us both i am ready to also travel miles just to unite with the woman that is honest in heart and willing to open her feelings to build strong contact that meant lead to something better in future. Moreover, I wouldn’t mine to spend my life time with a woman searching for a man after her own heart to love and spend the rest of her life time with together. Please you can write me back if you are interested to build a long lasting relationship with me based on love and trust with understanding, to my personal email address: I can send more photos of me to you when you reply.Thanks so much dear for your understanding. you look good on your picture. i wish to hear from you again in good health.
  5. How are you doing?just want you to know that i came across your profile and your picture and you are just too beautiful and your profile is very nice and i will like to know you more.hope to hear from you soon.
  6. I checked your profile and i liked… Actually, I got your words and it really impressed me so much, well, I just wanted to let you know the kind of person I am and the kind of woman I am looking for ,should attractive and as being comfortable with who she is.she should enjoy helping me in the kitchen as well as enjoying the outdoors. To quote another,“My Lover, Playmate, Best friend, Partner in crime and more” If these things appeal to you please let me know and maybe we can both enjoy this fascinating in life,I need real love..i don’t play games and i aint ready to be played….i got yahoo IM…we can get to chat there live
  7. Hi i’m  from NY, i view your profile and decide to write to you cuz you look very pretty and gentle, i want us to be friends hope you will give me a chance for us to know more.
  8. ..i just came across your profile, i wish to know you more, you have got a nice profile picture, i don’t message people i barely know like this, but i have a strong attraction for you and want to get to know you more..i am really sorry for intruding, i hope you are not angry? please reply back and i would keep in touch,warmest regards,cheers….and have a great day
  9. Hello it me, saw your profile an you really look cute would love to know much more of you if you don,t mind.Hope to read from you soon.
  10. Good morning Melissa and how are you doing?I just want to tell you that you are an epitome of beauty.I came across ur profile and decided to contact you,pls can i know you better?
  11. Hello….I was attract by what i saw and read on profile and if u are intrested in getting to know more about each other i write me back with your email address .
  12. How are doing my friend? You have such a lovely and tender smiles on your face and i will love to have a nice a suitable conversation with you if that’s nice by you, what name will you like me to call you.? Will you allow me be your friend so that we can build this friendship getting to communicate with each other spending that outrageous time getting to know more about ourselves because i do believe that communication is the key to any relationship and i will love to start somewhere by getting to know ourselves a little better.. Do you have a private email address so that we can write ourselves there and probably create some time where we can chat.?  ..I will be looking forward reading from you and do have a nice day and God bless you

With all that said, I know several married couple who have met online.  It is a great place to start talking and establish relationships however one must be careful on all the sweet words that entices you in the first place for they may not last… only bait.

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She Caressed The Poop

Kenz can’t smell.  She lost her sense of smell when she had mono a couple of years ago.  The doctors told her that her smell could possibly come back and at times she can smell a hint of something but it has to be really overpowering.  It’s been funny several times because I will ask her to smell this or that and she just looks at me with that look.  A thousand times she has told me she can’t smell and laughs.  People have bought her perfume for Christmas or other occasions, she wears it not knowing if it smells good or not on her.

We have a little dog, Roxie.  She is a Shih tzu , and is in need to go to the groomers.  Kenz loves Roxie and Roxie has her moods.  Kenz always loves on Roxie picking her up and cuddling her, caressing her and snuggling face to face talking baby talk.  Last night we all got a good laugh.  Kenzie was doing her loving on Roxie when we told her that Roxie had rolled in something earlier in the day that smelled like poop.  It was crusty on her back and around her neck area.  Roxie goes outside a lot and is always getting something in her hair like pine sap along with leaves and pine needles, so Kenzie didn’t think too much about the sticky crusty stuff in her hair.  Kenzie had just been loving and caressing poop!  She can’t smell, so she didn’t know.  She hands Roxie to Spencer, in which he stated, “I don’t want her, she has poop on her back and she stinks!”

When Roxie comes in from outside, we all just wait on to see who is going to clean her up if she rolls in something.  Every morning she comes in with grass in her tail.  Uggh! I am too lazy to use a leash and she would just die if she didn’t have her freedom around our yard.  She is almost 9 years old and still brings us joy, even if it is rolling in poop for Kenzie to rub.  By the way, she goes to the groomers next week.

Many times in life, we lose our sense of smell not in the natural but in the spiritual.  We MUST put our trust in the Lord daily or we stand as idols who do nothing.  If we trust in our own strength and don’t rely in God, we have legs but cannot walk, a mouth that can’t speak, eyes that cannot see, ears that cannot hear and a nose that cannot smell. If we don’t give our lives each day totally to Jesus, we might just be caressing poop without even knowing it!

Psalm 115 New Living Translation

1Not to us, O Lord, not to us,

but to your name goes all the glory

for your unfailing love and faithfulness.

2Why let the nations say,

“Where is their God?”

3Our God is in the heavens,

and he does as he wishes.

4Their idols are merely things of silver and gold,

shaped by human hands.

5They have mouths but cannot speak,

and eyes but cannot see.

6They have ears but cannot hear,

and noses but cannot smell.

7They have hands but cannot feel,

and feet but cannot walk,

and throats but cannot make a sound.

8And those who make idols are just like them,

as are all who trust in them.

9O Israel, trust the Lord!

He is your helper and your shield.

10O priests, descendants of Aaron, trust the Lord!

He is your helper and your shield.

11All you who fear the Lord, trust the Lord!

He is your helper and your shield.

12The Lord remembers us and will bless us.

He will bless the people of Israel

and bless the priests, the descendants of Aaron.

13He will bless those who fear the Lord,

both great and lowly.

14May the Lord richly bless

both you and your children.

15May you be blessed by the Lord,

who made heaven and earth.

16The heavens belong to the Lord,

but he has given the earth to all humanity.

17The dead cannot sing praises to the Lord,

for they have gone into the silence of the grave.

18But we can praise the Lord

both now and forever!

Praise the Lord!

Matthew’s Commentary : The heathen gods are senseless things. They are the works of mens hands: the painter, the carver, the statuary, can put no life into them, therefore no sense. The psalmist hence shows the folly of the worshippers of idols.

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You Make Me Come Alive

This morning I wrote in my prayer journal, “Jesus you make me come alive!  This is what you do!”  This is the lyrics from a song Jordan sang Thursday night at church.  You know how a song gets in your head and you sing it all day?  It seems I was singing it all night, upon every waking moment.

In this chaotic world we live in, we need something to keep us alive and that is the kinda faith that only Jesus can give.  When we are weak, then we lean upon Jesus, He gives us strength to live and push forward.  When we are stressed or worried, He whispers, “It’s going to be OK”. This is what He does.  He makes us aware of what is going on around us when we get caught up in daily life, showing us the hearts that need mending, the hungry, the sad, the lonely, the fatherless, the widow, the children and how this life can get really messy.  We all fall but falling makes us stronger, falling lets us know how to help others when they fall.  It is Jesus that rescues, He makes us come alive!

Be encouraged today.  You may not “feel” good or like anything is happening in your life.  Maybe it is the same old thing and every morning you hit the repeat button, but try to remember Jesus wants you to live, be alive!  Notice things around you and be thankful.

One of the homework assignments I give to my couples in therapy, is to write down at least 5 things that you are thankful at the end of the day and share with each other.  It focuses on what God has given you and how He is a BIG part of your life in the midst of life’s chaotic world.

Watch this video below…. it will make you smile and realize God is in control.  You will live today!