How easily people are swayed determines the wisdom and spirit that is within them. I often question God about wisdom. I know I can read about it all through proverbs and gain in just asking God for it. I pray for it. I want it. James 1:5 New Living Translation (©2007)
If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking.
http://betterlifecoachingblog.com I love what Darren says in a post:
You don’t get wisdom by reading great books or blogs. You don’t get wisdom by spending time with an amazing mentor. You don’t get wisdom by attending conferences with the best motivational speakers. You don’t get wisdom by going to university or night school. You don’t get wisdom by observing those who are the leaders in your field. You get it as you apply all that you’ve learned from the above. You get it by taking risks, making mistakes and learning from your experiences. You get it by making decisions and assessing your progress so that you can change your direction along the way. You get it by scraping your knees and getting dirt under your fingernails. You get it by finding out what works in your own context and circumstances. Jeff Foxworthy who said that, “Wisdom equals knowledge plus scars.”
Another short story I received in an email is worth sharing too. I am unsure where or who published it but holds true to all of us.
Once, there was a community of wise monks who lived in the desert. One day, a man arrived at the monastery, asking if he could stay and learn wisdom from the monks. The old abbot came out and greeted the traveler, then asked why he had come.
The man answered, “I want to be wise, but I only have the weekend.”
The abbot smiled, because many men hoped for the wisdom which had taken him a lifetime to accumulate. He replied, “To begin, go to the graveyard and spend the day cursing the dead. Tell them they lived useless lives, and the world is better off without them.”
The man thought this was strange, but he did as he was asked. The next day, the abbot asked the traveler, “So, what did the dead say?” The man replied, “Nothing, they’re all dead!”
The abbot told him, “Today, go to the graveyard and spend all day praising the dead! Shower them with blessings, exhort them, and speak of the many ways society has benefited from their life’s work.”
Now the man was thoroughly bewildered, but he did as he was asked. The next day, the abbot asked the traveler, “So, what did the dead say?”
The man replied, “Nothing! They’re all dead! And I have to leave today!” The wise old abbot looked at him and said,
“What wise men they must be, to not be swayed by either the empty blessings or angry curses of other people. They must know true happiness.”
New Living Translation (©2007) Ephesians 4:14 -15
Then we will no longer be immature like children. We won’t be tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching. We will not be influenced when people try to trick us with lies so clever they sound like the truth.Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.
English Standard Version (©2001) 1 Corinthians 14:20
Brothers, do not be children in your thinking, infants in evil, but in your thinking be mature.
New Living Translation (©2007) 1 Peter 2:1
So get rid of all evil behavior. Be done with all deceit, hypocrisy, jealousy, and all unkind speech.
New Living Translation (©2007) Romans 6:4
For we died and were buried with Christ by baptism. And just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glorious power of the Father, now we also may live new lives.
So with that all said, wisdom comes when we make up our mind to be dead in the flesh and live in Christ Jesus. Sometimes I need reminding of that when the joys of trial and persecution comes my way. 🙂