You may be thinking, what does carp and grouse have in common? Well I am not talking about a fish in the water but a term. I am not talking about a small bird but a term. Both of the words have similarities. Carp means to moan, grumble, find fault, grouse, nag, carry on, complain, Grouse means to gripe, object, protest, grumble or complain. When you look at the fish and the bird, You can be a small Carp or a really big Carp but the fact is you are still a Carp who likes to live in muddy waters and feed off the bottom of the lake. You determine how big you want to be. Grouse don’t fly very high, very fast and live most of their life on the ground in a limited area. I used the carp and the grouse loosely since it was a term I thought befitting to the Scripture, not in any way down grading God’s creations. 🙂
So if we look at it this way upon the terms: Do not complain, grumble, nag, find fault in others, pass judgement, belittle, laugh at, ridicule, express disapproval because if we do, people will do the same to us. So we shouldn’t be a Carp or a Grouse!
Today I read from Matthew 7 and Romans 8:. I should not criticize, so I won’t criticize. Others will treat you as you teat them. How can we help each other if we criticize?
What does criticize mean? Express disapproval of somebody or something or give considered opinion on something, and the synonyms are disapprove of, condemn, pass judgment on, complain, find fault in, belittle, laugh at, ridicule, or complain, moan, or grumble.
…because the way that you judge others will be the way that you will be judged, and you will be evaluated by the standard with which you evaluate others.
It is a never-ending circle. So how do we break this circle? We stop judging, complaining, finding fault in others, stop ridiculing or expressing our opinion on how we think things should be in that person’s life. If we don’t, it will continue. If we continue to talk about others, the judgement of the law says people will continue to talk about us. You may be thinking, “Well I don’t care what others say about me”. Although this is true, most of us want a good reputation.
Our lips must be governed by the law of kindness, as well as truth and justice. Christians are brethren…to break God’s commands, is to speak evil of others, and to judge them, as if they laid too great a self-control upon us. We have the law of God, which is a rule to all; let us not presume to set up our own notions and opinions as a rule to others but not ourselves and let us be careful that we be not condemned by our own mouth.
So with this said, Lord there should be only kindness and well as truth and justice come from my mouth. To do otherwise is a sin and we are condemned by our own mouth. Unprofessed sin will condemn and the un-renewed will is unable to keep any commandment fully. And the law, requires inward obedience.
By the Spirit the law of love is written upon the heart.
The favor of God, the welfare of the soul, the concerns of eternity, are the things of the Spirit in which believers seek and do.
What are our plans and motives? Do we do things or say things that are wise for our soul or flesh? Those who do so seek to pleasure themselves and are dead. However a sanctified soul is living and that life is peace. If we are living in peace or turmoil should speak for itself if we are truly speaking good or evil. Love or carp and grouse.
The carnal mind is not only an enemy to God, but hostile itself with aggression or anger.
The carnal man may, by the power of Divine grace, be made subject to the law of God, but the carnal mind never can; that must be broken and driven out.
We may know our real state and character by inquiring whether we have the Spirit of God and Christ, or not. We should not be in the flesh, but in the Spirit. Having the Spirit of Christ, means having a turn of mind in some degree like the mind that was in Christ Jesus, and is to be shown by a life and conversation suitable to his precepts and example.
So today Lord, I want to declare and teach me to watch what I say about others with the rule in mind, I will not talk about others in a way if they were sitting there with me, that I would do otherwise. I don’t want to be a Carp or a Grouse!