Abundant life, marriage enrichment

What Wives Want Their Husbands to Know – Part 3

For the last two days I have been talking about the top things every husband needs to know about what their wife really wants.  This could also  apply to any relationship.  Some men are natural romantics and some are players to get what they want with selfish nature kicking hard.  Some men just want to work, come home and either relax in their recliner or retreat to their man cave without any social planning or social interactions with his wife.  In past many have misunderstood the woman’s hints or have repeated the same ones over and over again until it becomes, can you say, “Boring”.  Here is a list of questions in which will determine your answer for social interaction. If men could get down this balance and find some play time with their wife, they would find their wife turned on as it was in the first honeymoon days.  Most women want to get out of the house and plan an afternoon spending time with her husband along with interacting with others.  They also love planning an event in the home.  How does this make a woman feel?  Important and loved!  Men need to ask themselves these questions.

Would you consider yourself social or antisocial, a people person or a hermit?

Do you and your wife regularly do things with others or do you make plans to do the things your wife enjoys doing with you??

Do you plan outings and events for the two of you to enjoy together?’

Is your family making special memories that your kids will take with them all their lives?

Are you truly enjoying life balancing work and fun?

Do you resist attending social functions because of cost, or taking time to get ready and can you welcome others into your home?

Do you mingle with people or hurry away after an event?

I have found out that too many woman complain that after a few years of marriage the fun stops.  What happened to the play time?  Responsibilities have crowded out the fun and the seriousness with routine takes over.  A husband needs to lead and women need to be able to tell their husband what they want without rejection.  We want times to reflect upon, not times where we feel shut down.  We want our husband to be open and interact socially with us and with others.  We like to play!  Tomorrow is the final and most important step in making a lasting impression upon your wife, so don’t forget to read! These are truly the most important things every woman wants their man to know.

New American Standard Bible (©1995) Ecclesiastes 9:9
Enjoy life with the woman whom you love all the days of your fleeting life which He has given to you under the sun; for this is your reward in life and in your toil in which you have labored under the sun.

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